Family holidays · Single parents · Stepchildren

Avoid the holiday step-stress

Christmas season is here with us. The joy and excitement of the holidays is so real. Family and friends coming together to celebrate the birth our Lord Jesus as well as the years accomplishments, ups and downs. Its a time to celebrate, a time to learn from the year behind. Warm fuzzies everywhere. Perfect right?… Continue reading Avoid the holiday step-stress

Dating & Marriage · Stepchildren · stepmom

5 things no one tells you about marrying a widower

One type of step-family dynamic that we don’t seem to talk or hear enough about is being married to a widower. There is a notion I have heard from ladies when it comes to this subject matter. Many of them believe that its easier to marry a widower than it is to marry a single… Continue reading 5 things no one tells you about marrying a widower

Dating & Marriage · Stepchildren · stepparents

How to let your step-kids know you’re not a threat

When I first met my stepchildren I thought we would get along like a house on fire. You see, for one year while I was still dating their father I had soaked so many stories about them. He spoke so fondly of them, like all parents do about their little ones. You know that feeling… Continue reading How to let your step-kids know you’re not a threat

Parenting · Single parents · Stepchildren · Stepparents & Biological parents

Why you are not getting along well with your stepchildren

Having a great relationship with my stepkids is something I thank God for everyday. It’s a blessing that I do not take for granted. People who have had the opportunity to meet my children and I are shocked at the great relationship we have. My own husband is amazed at just how well we get… Continue reading Why you are not getting along well with your stepchildren

Stepchildren · Stepparents & Biological parents

From Single to Married with Kids… Understanding your not so enthusiastic stepchildren

Children are at the very center of any new blended family. They tend to get forgotten because the couple is so in love, optimistic and ready to start the new life with their new partner. It’s important to always remember that all step-families are born out of loss. The new couple lost a husband/wife and… Continue reading From Single to Married with Kids… Understanding your not so enthusiastic stepchildren