Dating & Marriage · Stepchildren · stepmom

5 things no one tells you about marrying a widower

One type of step-family dynamic that we don’t seem to talk or hear enough about is being married to a widower. There is a notion I have heard from ladies when it comes to this subject matter. Many of them believe that its easier to marry a widower than it is to marry a single… Continue reading 5 things no one tells you about marrying a widower

Parenting · Single parents · Stepchildren · Stepparents & Biological parents

Why you are not getting along well with your stepchildren

Having a great relationship with my stepkids is something I thank God for everyday. It’s a blessing that I do not take for granted. People who have had the opportunity to meet my children and I are shocked at the great relationship we have. My own husband is amazed at just how well we get… Continue reading Why you are not getting along well with your stepchildren

Family holidays · Stepparents & Biological parents

Mother’s day advice for stepmoms who dread the day

I remember my first Mother’s day as a stepmom. ” Wendy”? My stepdaughter called. “You know its Mother’s day; would you please help me to pick out a gift for mum? You’re so good at picking out gifts”, she said.  My initial reaction was “of course, I would be thrilled to do it”. I actually… Continue reading Mother’s day advice for stepmoms who dread the day

Stepchildren · Stepparents & Biological parents

From Single to Married with Kids… Understanding your not so enthusiastic stepchildren

Children are at the very center of any new blended family. They tend to get forgotten because the couple is so in love, optimistic and ready to start the new life with their new partner. It’s important to always remember that all step-families are born out of loss. The new couple lost a husband/wife and… Continue reading From Single to Married with Kids… Understanding your not so enthusiastic stepchildren